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May 26, 2017

7 Truths for Overcoming Worry in Your Life

As a single girl (before I married Zack) I had so many fears and worries running through my head. “What if I never get married?!” “What if no guy likes me?!” “What if don’t get married until I’m 40?!” Fear. Worry. Lack of trust. All of my worries were completely in vain. Around 3 years later Zack (my now amazing husband), asked me to be his wife. Since I was no longer worried about “getting married,” I figured I was in the clear of my worry issues. Ha! Not even close. Little did I know how much hard work and money it took to plan a wedding (much less a reallyFull Post

Posted By: Kristen Clark


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May 24, 2017

The Difference Between a Wild and a Wise Woman

WATCH VIDEO  The Bible makes it pretty clear that there are two very different types of women in the world. There are wild women and there are wise women. Sadly, our culture upholds the wild woman and encourages us to be like her. The Bible makes it very clear that we should be wise though. Not wild. Today’s vlog will show the differences between the two women. You will be encouraged to become like the wise woman we see in Proverbs 31. WATCH VIDEO 

Posted By: Kristen Clark and Bethany Baird


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May 22, 2017

Christian Girls Need to Start Talking about God Defined Sexuality

A few months ago, Kristen and I began praying about a theme for our upcoming summer conference. We talked, prayed, talked some more and still came up empty handed. We wanted to host a conference that would meet the greatest needs of the girls who would attend…we just weren’t sure what that was. The two of us agreed that we didn’t want to settle on a topic just because it seemed interesting or exciting. We wanted a topic that would genuinely help and challenge the girls attending. After hours of thinking, we decided to give the brainstorming a break. A few weeks went by and then we met backFull Post

Posted By: Bethany Baird


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May 19, 2017

Choosing Modesty and Dignity over Sexual Compromise

From the time I was a little girl I’ve had random people approach me and ask if I did any modeling. I had never thought of myself as a model, but all of their questions made me curious. As I grew older my curiosity for the modeling industry grew stronger. I was raised in a strong Christian home and both of my parents knew the dangers of the modeling industry. When I grew a little older I finally convinced them to let me try a “family friendly” modeling agency. I got the job immediately and signed a one year contract. Things seemed to be going well at first andFull Post

Posted By: Kristen Clark


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May 17, 2017

How We Got Our Very First Book Published

WATCH VIDEO  Our dream of becoming authors seemed too big to ever become a reality. We were working hard, but we knew it would take a miracle from Heaven to make this dream a reality. Fast forward to today and we are celebrating the one year anniversary of Girl Defined hitting the bookstores. One year ago, for the very first time, Kristen and I held our brand new book in our hands. Shock, awe, amazement, gratitude, unbelief, excitement, joy, and pure delight are just a few of the feelings we felt when we opened that exciting package. Here is our story of how we became published authors. GET THEFull Post

Posted By: Bethany Baird


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May 15, 2017

Dealing With the Heartache of a Breakup

I think the hardest part of a breakup is the mornings that follow it. The nights are hard too, but the mornings, I think that’s when the pain is the rawest. When you’ve spent the past 6-8 hours (or 5 if you’re anything like me) sleeping in a blissful state of ignorance, and then you wake up and for the first few seconds everything is fine. And then your brain wakes up and reality comes in, and it hits you hard. Another day of trying to make it through. Another day of trying to move on. I’m writing to you because I’m currently going through a breakup. It’s beenFull Post

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May 12, 2017

4 Signs You’re Being a Christian Gossip Girl

As soon as I saw her text message, I instantly felt the twinge of guilt. This friend was following up with me about a conversation the two of us had shared earlier that day. We had been innocently chatting about a recent challenge in her life regarding a certain relationship. Without even realizing it, our conversation headed south and begin to borderline on gossip. The details we hashed out about that particular person went too far and were not necessary. So in this text message, my friend asked me to forgive her for gossiping about that particular friend. I knew I was guilty as well, so I asked askedFull Post

Posted By: Kristen Clark


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May 10, 2017

Choosing to Take Modesty Into Your Summer Swimwear

WATCH VIDEO  As Christian girls, it’s our responsibility to pull our lost culture toward God’s Word, not away from it. It is our obligation to raise the moral bar, not lower it. It is our duty to lead our culture towards modesty and decency, not away from it. It is our privilege to showcase the purity and holiness of Christ, rather than the nudity of our culture. As Ephesians 5:1,8, and 10 says, “Therefore, be imitators of God, as beloved children…for at one time, you were in darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Walk as children of light…and try to discern what is pleasing to theFull Post

Posted By: Kristen Clark and Bethany Baird


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May 8, 2017

Give the Guy a Chance to be a Gentleman

I was a sophomore in high school and had just finished playing in the semi-finals for a big basketball tournament. As my team and I were sitting in the bleachers scouting out our competition, one of the high school guys teams came and sat right behind us. It just so happened that these guys went on to introduce themselves and quickly struck up a conversation. As our conversation with these guys gained speed, my ears quickly tuned into their major language problem. Their English was fine, but their choice of words was filled with profanity and inappropriate comments. Being the outgoing girl on my team, I turned around and lookedFull Post

Posted By: Bethany Baird


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May 5, 2017

3 Truths for Becoming a Seriously Godly Woman

A few summers ago I hosted a simulcast conference at my church. The simulcast was put on by Leslie Ludy over at Set Apart Girl Ministries. As she was speaking she mentioned this idea of “becoming one of the few.” She said that in every generation there are only a few girls willing to give up their lives for Christ. There are only a few girls who are willing to give up the world’s ideas and follow the Bible’s. There are only a few girls willing to give up their life plans in exchange for Christ’s plan. Leslie then asked us if we wanted to be one of theFull Post

Posted By: Bethany Baird


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