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Celebrate! Sex, Purity, and the Longings of a Girl’s Heart is Here!

By: girldefined2014

We are so excited to announce that Sex, Purity, and the Longings of a Girl’s Heart: Discovering the Beauty and Freedom of God-DefinedSexuality officially released today!!!

Today is a day of celebration.

A day to celebrate all that God has done and is going to do.

We are in awe of His incredible grace and mercy in our lives and this book is a testimony of His faithfulness.

Our prayer is that this book will show you the beauty and freedom of God-defined sexuality.

Get to know, Sex, Purity, and the Longings of a Girl’s Heart!

PS: We are giving away a bunch of FREEBIES on Instagram and Facebook. Keep an eye out for your chance to win!

Kristen and Bethany

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99 Responses to Celebrate! Sex, Purity, and the Longings of a Girl’s Heart is Here!

  1. Suzanne says:


  2. Callie Howell says:

    I am excited to read this book and use it as a bible study with my friends from school!

  3. Abigail Amoah says:

    What I was (and have thoroughly enjoyed) excited about the book is how transparent you are in addressing awkward topics. It is a reminder to view our sexual desires and longings as a reminder to go to the One who is able to satisfy our longings and make us whole in Christ.

  4. Kaylee says:

    I can’t wait to learn more about God and his desires for women at the girl defined conference! I hope to meet Kirstin and Bethany in person!!!!

  5. Shannon says:

    Such a great book!! A huge blessing to all girls, and I can’t wait to attend the conference coming up!

  6. Mor Leanne says:

    So excited for the book! <3

  7. Cayce Rivera says:

    I can’t wait to use this in my teen small group

  8. Katherine says:

    I’m excited to read about hard topics that others avoid or hestitate to discuss. I’m thankful that Kristen & Bethany are boldly proclaiming truth in a world of confusion and distortion. I’m excited for this book!!

  9. Asta Naamansen says:

    Great Book

  10. Sherry says:

    looking forward to sharing book insights with my daughter. Thanks for being a light!

  11. Gabby says:

    I have been looking forward to reading this book so much! I love your ladies ministry and encouragement ❤️

  12. Callie Atkins says:

    I’m so excited to read this book! I love seeing books that are written by Christians and shine light on God’s word! I also come from a large homeschool family and we love seeing your posts on Instagram and FaceBook!

  13. Caro Patalano says:

    I am looking forward to reading the paperback book. I also pre-ordered the pdf and audiobook but I am waiting the paperback book that I ordered last week, as I am from Argentina, it will take a time to get the paperback book. I am a Christian girl, I like your work and I follow GirlDefined on YouTube and other media. I hope the Lord keep blessing you and your Ministry. Greetings and blessings!

  14. Joan Lee says:

    I’m excited to read the book written from two Christ-like sisters who serve God and is doing a ministry for him and educating people about relationships and about struggles of sexual sin and overcoming sexual sins.

  15. Devinne says:

    I absolutely love Kristen & Bethany’s books! All young women should read these fantastic books!!

  16. Sara Bergen says:

    I’m so excited to read this book and learn and get free from sexual sins!

  17. Annette says:

    Se blessed to have God speaking to this generation of young women through your lives and books. I would love to read this book and learn.

  18. Sarah Shaw says:

    Excited to read it!

  19. Heather Grove says:

    I’m excited to use this material in mentoring young women!!

  20. Baylie Henry says:

    I believe this book will reignite a powerful strength in women to rise up against what society believes and tells us.

  21. Savannah Snoddy says:

    I am so excited to read this book and looking forward to learning more about who I am in Christ!!

  22. Yasmina says:

    I run a mentoring girls group and your videos and Girl Defined book have been a true inspiration during our sessions. We are in the UK. Keep the good work. Congratulations on your new book. May God bless your ministry mightily.
    Yasmina xx

  23. Sara Dyck says:

    Can’t wait to read your new book!

  24. Tabita Fulgeanu says:

    God bless you!

  25. Tabita Fulgeanu says:

    I’d really love to read your new book!!❤

  26. Mackensie Prosser says:


  27. sel stern says:

    Thank you for this great and helpful book. That’s what I needed.

  28. Annie Beirne says:

    Excited to finally have questions tackled and answered!

  29. Nancy P says:

    Sounds like an exceptional book. Congratulations!

  30. Melissa M says:

    Excited for this book. I know it will be so helpful as we seek to be set free from sin! Thank you for being so vulnerable on the matter, we need more women who are unafraid!

  31. Grace I. says:

    I am excited to read this book and learn more about the struggles a woman normally faces when it comes to sexual purity and have a biblical understanding on how God intended it to be. Thank you Kristin and Bethany for writing this book so women all over the world can know that women also struggle with purity and that we don’t have to struggle alone and God can heal and deliver us from any struggle. Glory to God!

  32. Chiara Potestá says:

    I’m so excited with this book!! I want to know more about how I have to use my sexuality in a God honoring way, and know the stories of other women that (like me) have struggle with sexual sin. Blessings and love from Peru!!

  33. Jemima says:

    I am excited for this book as I really enjoyed Girl Defined and Love Defined 🙂

  34. Ashley Nelson says:

    I am very excited for this book. I am currently reading love defined!

  35. Hannah Reilly says:

    I am actually so excited for this book I’ve been wanting to read it since you guys started promoting it!

  36. Coconat817 says:

    I am looking forward to getting this book. It is a topic that not many people talk about today.

  37. мαи∂α says:

    Yes! I can’t wait!

  38. Juwana Mukattash says:

    Amazing topic!!!
    I hope we in middle east can have your books here to buy and share.

  39. Amanda Stoliker says:

    This book is amazing! The best I’ve ever read on this topic.

  40. Ms.Nunez says:

    I am excited for this new book because as a christian young women there are many questions as to what we are expected to think or or how we are expected to act in certain situations. I feel this places pressure on wanting to be this perfect individual and at the same time wanting to follow Christ and serve Him as best we can in this life. And, so, reading these books have been eye openers to the lives of other Christian women and how we can support each other, finding peace and guidance through God’s word.

  41. Shannon says:

    I look forward to being reminded of the beauty and joy of purity in Christ!

  42. Sarah Adrian says:

    I am excited that Bethany and Kristen are presenting a Biblical viewpoint on Sexuality. I am excited to grow in my understanding of what that is.

  43. iris routh says:

    Hi! my name is Iris, I’ve been reading with some of my sisters in Christ your great books Girl Defined and Love Defined, they have been terrific to me and I know that with the experience of the first two books the third one will be a great help for my life and for my sisters. I´m from Colombia and I hope some day those books will be translate to spanish for the God´s Glory!

  44. Emily E. Finke says:

    I am excited that there is a resource for Christian girls on a topic like this instead of having to turn to secular sources.

  45. bn100 says:

    nice resource for girls

  46. Susanna Freeman says:

    I am thankful that Kristen and Bethany have allowed God to use them to speak so honestly about these important topics! I’m excited about the transformative power of the timely message in this book! Kristen and Bethany, I appreciate the inspiration you have been in my life! ❤️

  47. Sara Johnson says:

    I am in the process of reading your new book and I love that you were willing to touch on such a taboo subject and show that we, as Christian girls and young women are not alone in our desires and/or struggles and that we can conquer them with God’s help. Another beautiful job ladies! I’m so thankful for your ministry bGod bless!

  48. rebeccavanmiddelkoop says:

    I’m excited for practical tips for remaining pure in mind and body!

  49. Tabi says:

    I have just started reading your book and already it has encouraged me. I have been struggling with the same thing Kristen talks in the first chapter about struggling with. I am praying God will use the book, along with His Word to help strengthen me and give me the tools to fight against temptation. I am excited to really understand God’s design for me.

  50. Debora Handojo says:

    Excited to learn about such a common yet taboo topic that nobody else in the church seems comfortable talking about, especially in the women’s ministry.

  51. Lacey Carroll Harvey says:

    I’m excited to hearing more about your interpretation of purity as a heart and mind issue as well as an issue of the body!

  52. Esther says:

    Sounds like a good book! A topic that needs to be addressed.

  53. Eunice Baliong says:

    My friends and I started a girls’ discipleship group in school. Your books will make great Bible study materials.

  54. Sarah says:

    Love this book!

  55. Sarah says:

    Love this book!!

  56. Gabrielle W says:

    People need to understand that this book isn’t just for preteens/teenagers. I feel women of any age can benefit from it!

  57. Kaytlynn Kingsriter says:

    I ordered this book, about to start reading. So excited!!

  58. Rachel says:

    Excited to start reading. It’s great that the book is on a topic that isn’t often talked about but really should be talked about more.

  59. Autumn Whitley says:

    So excited to get deeper into purity and draw near to God.

  60. Hannah says:

    I’m so excited for learning more about this topic, really look up to you guys!

  61. Beth says:

    This book is such an encouragement!

  62. Abigail B. says:

    I’m really looking forward to reading this book. I do t have a copy yet but can’t wait to get one. ! ~Abby

  63. Emi Taylor says:

    Love this book!

  64. Peggy says:

    So thankful yo stumble onto this. God is gracious. I am looking for a good resource to go through with a young lady that I mentor.

  65. Petra says:

    I just love love this book! It digs deep to the heart of the issue and provides clarity and truth that allows one to fix the root of the problem and “glorify God in our bodies”

  66. Jenarae Holguin says:

    I’m so excited about the book !!!

  67. Lidia Maxine says:

    I’m so excited to listen to this book! I don’t have much reading time so I was EXCITED to see you have it in audio.

  68. Kass King says:

    I pre-ordered and got the audiobook as a bonus and I love it!

  69. Sarah Sears says:

    I can’t wait! Though I plan to wait until marriage I greatly enjoy reading books like this one. Can’t wait!

  70. Natalie Martinov says:

    Sounds like a great book, excited to read it!

  71. Emma says:

    Such a cool book, can’t wait to read it!

  72. Meredith Simmons says:

    Can’t wait to get my hands on this book!

  73. Charisma says:

    I’m super excited to go to the conference and purchase the book to learn more about these topics. They are super important to understand in my coming college season of life.

  74. Carrie Gochenour says:

    I’m excited to learn about purity as my daughters are growing up and I am excited to go to the conference and purchase this book looking forward to spending time with God and my girls.

  75. Sara Dyck says:

    Would love to read the book!

  76. Sara Dyck says:

    I’m so excited to get it!

  77. Jacqueline W says:

    I can’t wait to learn more about God’s design for marriage and intimacy. This is such an important aspect of life, single, attached, engaged, or married. No one should go through life without learning the beauty of God’s covenant and promises in this area!

  78. jasmine simpson says:

    I’m ready to learn about the true definition of love and not lust! The world is always telling us to be sexy and engage in sexual activities before marriage but we fail to realize that Gods plan is much better! It’s so comforting to know that there are other women who are wanting to wait for God and not rush into the Worlds Trap

  79. Gia Pasquarella says:

    So excited for the truth about lust to be exposed so that’s women can live in freedom and fellowship

  80. Stephy Ballesteros says:

    I need to purchase these books. I keep putting it off :/ but I will next paycheck!

  81. Gabrielle says:

    I’m so excited to have this topic addressed!! Soooo important for this crazy culture!

  82. Juliette says:

    Love having those two christians woman tackling real issues and learn more about their opinions on difficult topics

  83. Marisa says:

    this is amazing !!!!!!

  84. Abigail Fletcher says:

    This is such an exciting book, it is so important for any modern girl! Thank you for putting such hard work into it, this will help so many people!

  85. Nevia says:

    I’m excited to learn how God wants his children to honor him with their bodies.

  86. Brenae Hord says:

    So super excited to read this book! Loved your other two books!

  87. Kate says:

    This book is exciting, because more women need the truth of God’s heart and beautiful design for sexuality —myself included! — and not many people have the resources to talk about it!

  88. Maciah Lorang says:

    So excited that this makes people talk about taboo topics!

  89. Marie Pellegrini says:

    It’s great to have a resource like this!

  90. Grace says:

    So excited to read this! Love you guys!

  91. Lacey Shaye Smith says:

    I purchased this book and I’m enjoying it thoroughly. Thanks for setting a standard Kristen and Bethany 🙂

  92. Ashley Vaughan says:

    This looks great! I’m definitely going to have to add it to my reading list…

  93. Addie Gipe says:

    Looks great, really need this now if days

  94. Addie Gipe says:

    Looks great, really need this now of days

  95. AnnaG says:

    This book looks so good! I’m so thankful for you two and all you do!

  96. Ashley says:

    This looks so good. I can’t wait to read this

  97. CJ says:

    I’m so excited to read this! 🙂

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