How to Think Clearly When You’re Totally Infatuated

By: Kristen Clark and Bethany Baird


I (Bethany) clearly remember a time in my life when I was totally infatuated with a guy. In my mind, this guy could do no wrong. He was like a modern day William Wallace.

After a good two years, the fog lifted and I was finally able to see clearly.

It was in those moments of clarity that I finally realized I had been infatuated. I had basically ignored all the wisdom and advice around me because I was so head-over-heals for this guy. My feelings were driving my brain and I wasn’t going to let anything stop me.

Infatuation has a way of creeping up on us without us even realizing it.

In today’s Vlog, the two of us want to share 4 practical tips to help you prepare for the future. There will most likely come a time when you will experience infatuation.

It’s time to think ahead and plan smart so that you will be prepared when infatuation hits.


Bethany & Kristen

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  • Rachel M.

    Great video and awesome tips!! This was very timely. I have recently had this problem, not with a guy, but with certain ideas. So this was super helpful! Thanks and keep up the good work!

  • Wonderful vlog! I remember when I was like twelve being completely OBSESSED with this guy. My life was a wreck–except when I saw him. I lived for the few hours I saw him at church. I remember getting to a point where I realized I couldn’t live like this anymore. That was the first time I really opened up to my mom. Talking things through with her helped me begin the process of getting over that obsession. And it showed me that I can trust my mom and talk to her about these things. 🙂

    Thank you!

  • khloe q

    I need some help. There’s this really cute and really sweet guy at my church. I kinda have a crush on him. I don’t want to become infatuated with him but I don’t really know the signs. I have a mentor and I have been talking to my mom about the friendship but I don’t really know if I’m infatuated with him or not. Do you think that I might be infatuated?

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