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What Love, Weddings, and Marriage Teach us About God

By: Kristen Clark

She was absolutely breathtaking. With a smile the size of Texas and eyes as bright as the sun, she slowly walked toward her groom. This was the long awaited moment in both of their lives.

With his gaze locked onto the radiant face of his bride, the groom smiled and shook his head in delightful astonishment. She was walking…toward him. He had pursued and won the heart of a godly, beautiful, and joy-filled woman.

I know this couple personally, and their entire love story was marked by faithfulness, purity, and Christ-centered love. As I watched the ceremony unfold, my heart rejoiced for this couple and the union that was forming.

The wedding day.

There are very few things that can top the excitement and beauty of the wedding day. As women, we especially love weddings and love stories. We love a good romance! Right?

But even as much as we love romance, love stories, and weddings, there’s someone who loves them even more than we do — God.

God is the author and designer of all things love, romance, and marriage. The Bible even begins with a love story (Adam and Eve) and ends with a grand wedding feast (the marriage feast of the Lamb, Revelation 19).

From Genesis to Revelation the Bible reveals the powerful story of God’s love, pursuit, and covenant with His people.

And what’s even more amazing, is that God himself designed love, romance, engagement, covenants, and marriage to be an earthly picture of a much greater spiritual reality.

Love and marriage is wonderful, but the more we understand the truths behind what they represent about God, the more glorious they will become to us. And the more we will be equipped to glorify God through them.

So let’s do a quick flyby of grooms, brides, weddings and covenants and explore the exciting biblical truths behind what these things represent.


Ephesians 5:25:27 says, “Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish.”

God created the groom (the man) to reflect and represent Christ himself. Just as Christ came to this earth to pursue and love His Bride (the Church), godly manhood should portray that picture.

The earthly act of a man pursuing a woman actually reflects what Christ did for us! Isn’t that amazing? And a man leading and loving his family paints a powerful picture of the way Christ leads His Church.


Revelation 19:7 says, “Let us rejoice and exult and give him the glory, for the marriage of the Lamb has come, and his Bride has made herself ready…”

Not only does the bride (the wife) represent the Church, but the entire act of preparing for the wedding teaches us incredible truths about God’s plan. When Jesus came to this earth, died for our sins, and returned to heaven, He left us with a promise. He promised to come back for us (His Church) again. Our job is to be prepared and ready for His second coming.

Just as a bride spends months and months planning her wedding and making herself ready for her groom, our job (as the Church) is to make ourselves ready for the coming of our heavenly Groom. We need to be busy working hard for His return by serving him with our lives.


Ephesians 5:31-32 says, “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.’ This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church.”

God designed marriage to be between one man and one woman on purpose and for a purpose. The man is a representation of Christ himself, and the woman represents the Church. As a man chooses to pursue, sacrifice for, and lead His bride, his actions reflect Christ.

As the woman chooses to respond to her groom, embrace his love, and willingly submit to his leadership, she reflects the Church. When a couple chooses to get married, and embraces their God-given roles as male and female, they display a beautiful picture of the gospel for all to see.


2 Corinthians 5:17 says, “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.”

God created marriage to reflect the type of permanent love relationship that He has for his Church. When a couple stands at the altar of their wedding and say their vows, they are entering into covenant together. God created the covenant to be the most binding and serious contract we could imagine.

Essentially, a covenant means, “a promise that cannot be broken.” Just as God’s covenant with His people still stands, marriage is supposed to reflect that same type of lasting, permanent love.

Marriage is so much more than two people falling in love.

Love, weddings, and marriage tell a much grander story. And that story is all about our incredible God! The more we learn about His good design for our love life, the better equipped we will be to glorify Him.

The next time you’re at a wedding, take a moment to thank God for the beautiful gospel picture that marriage represents. And in the meantime, may we be a Bride faithfully preparing for the return of our Heavenly Groom.

Let’s chat.

  • Is your perspective of marriage as grand and as beautiful as God’s?
  • In what ways do you need to grow in your understanding of God’s role and purpose for the wife?

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12 Responses to What Love, Weddings, and Marriage Teach us About God

  1. Ariel says:

    This is such a great reminder at such the right moment! My Family and I are in the process of planning my sister’s wedding. It is so easy to get caught up in the planning that we forget that we are picture of Christ and the church. So thank you So much for this!! I definitely needed this reminder!

  2. Cait says:

    I love this so much! Its so cool cause I just blogged the other day on us being the bride of Christ and then y’all posted this. Wonderful post Kristen, thank you for sharing!
    My view on marriage is that the guy will lead and pursue and the girl will respond. As I’ve studied the word and read Christian books and blogs my view has become shaped around God’s word.
    I think I need to be more patient in waiting and not want things now rather than in God’s timing for marriage. 🙂

    • Chloe says:

      Purchase the documentary and the book Betrothed by the organization HaYovel that serves Jewish farmers in Israel. Their take on our relationship with Christ is amazing! It will really take your breath away, and you will understand your true Husband even better!

  3. Chloe says:

    The biblical process of betrothal gives an even greater picture of our marriage to Christ – especially the separation period that we are in now. I encourage everyone to check out the organization HaYovel. They have a documentary and a book called Betrothed. In these they explain why they did a betrothal and how it relates to our relationship with Christ.

  4. Brittany says:

    Thank you for this post.

  5. Shanae B says:

    Great post! The coulture is attacking this wonderful earthly picture God gave us of his relationship towards us (the Church). The reminder is very needed right now. Thanks for sharing this!

  6. Rayssa Inácio says:

    Amazing <3 <3 <3

  7. ASUS says:

    You forgot something !

    Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.

    Colossians 3 18

  8. ASUS says:

    34 the women should keep silent in the churches. For they are not permitted to speak, but should be in submission, as the Law also says.

    35 If there is anything they desire to learn, let them ask their husbands at home. For it is shameful for a woman to speak in church.

    1 Corinthians 14

  9. Chelsea Ejimakor says:

    This is a really good advice. Thanks.I also think a wife should be more close to God in order to pass that it unto her children.

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